In my early twenties, it was not so easy to be in love with someone who lived in another city. Heartfelt expressions of Love you could write an e-Mail, or perhaps via SMS, and, of course, in the listener whisper. But what if you had to buck each other? If you was horny like a whole stable of monkeys? Then just phone sex often stayed. Not my Cup of tea, because I’m not in real life, the kommunikativste type. I had found someone who gladly chatted, and gave me his dirtiest fantasies into your ear moaning, I was doing. Someone who was willing to imagine, I would be only with a pink String and roller skates dressed on my Ikea cot and listen to Aerosmith, even though he knew that I was sitting in the Jogger on my Sofa and “The juvenile court” looked. Unfortunately, these types were few and far between.
Today we have it so much easier. Phone sex is so 2004, we also have Tinder. Usually after a few messages clear in which direction the Date-fun to go – Friend Zone heart area or down south. The feelings go South, is often can gesextet fast as you, “Hey, what are YOU looking for on Tinder?” to say.
Sexten?
Sexting is referred to as a pickup line of the image – and text messages and is a combination of the words “Sex” and “Texting”. Who would have thought.
we are Talking first of all about photos. The first rule is: No penis photos, if not explicitly, from the Sexting Partner desired. Because, as I put them already in a previous post to heart: most women like it, not Thick and requested to get Pics (here I’ll tell you what I really think about Dick-Pics). To plump, to saying – sorry not sorry. Keep it exciting: she is in bed, naked torso, a Selfie to see your face: Hot! Women like faces. But mainly this is a base on which you can build. You want to make the lady’s curious and not unkind the whole wad at once before the feet of throw. Whether you want to show but now your defined chest muscles, or your Butt – your Sexting photos should never provided and intentionally sexy. So no excessive Charmer looks, not lasciviously pulled down lower lip. Your photos must convey instead that you were made quite spontaneously, casually – because you are in the mood for the woman you messengers, just as busy little smut back and forth.
bonus tip 1: I am a Pragmatist and have little time. That’s why I keep my best Sex-snapshot – for bad times. To send such a “second-hand”photos, find a lot of uncool, as neither creative nor individually. But: If you don’t give something away, no one will know of your little Trick.
Speaking of giveaways: What to write because in Sesto? Depends on creativity level of Horniness and the Situation. And how you and the lady are to each other. They have matched each other only two days ago on Tinder, I recommend at the beginning of back stance. A good Opener is: “What are you doing?” You back answers, flirty, can also expose you to a Tooth. And before you know it’, you are in the middle of the most beautiful Sexting-battle. You give instructions (“touch you”), describe what you imagine (“If you were here, I would you first … and then, but really …”), let out the Tiger.
Bonus tip 2: If you enjoy it, a little bit bossed around or, more generally, on Challenges, enter your task: “Shooting you in the pink String, and with roller skates on your feet on your Ikea cot lying! And then you send me your Aerosmith-Spotify-Playlist!“
That would have me messed up at that time, although the Tour, it’s hot nevertheless.
Mimi Sex columnist for GQ, and GQ.de is Erhardt. Here you can learn more about the author.
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*The article “Sexting: how the Sex goes by Messenger correctly” published by GQ. Contact with the executives here.
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