Negative phrases that have offended or offended you are remembered longer than when someone says something positive to us. Especially when our own partner has hurt us. Many people underestimate the power of words, especially in a relationship dispute. An imaginary lever is quickly thrown, which activates the fight mode and you suddenly hear yourself saying things that you would rather have kept to yourself or actually didn’t mean at all.
You are not even aware of some of these sentences, but they hurt immensely and can cause massive damage to the relationship. That’s why it’s important to avoid them in a relationship.
In a relationship dispute, it’s always good to keep the ball low and prefer to remain silent and sleep on it for a night than to attack each other and the whole conflict in the partnership turn into a kind of battle. Insults, insinuations and emotional blackmail within such a conversation automatically only lead to even greater problems and injuries to the other person. If you are no longer able to remain calm and matter-of-fact, it is better to leave the room or the house before saying sentences that you regret and can never take back.
