On the social networks, there is the Hashtag #nonewfrieds. User posts including group photos of young, good-humored people who know, apparently, since the sand-box and also 20 years later, a super spend time together. Message: “What’s on the outside I care about the world, I do it myself here with my old buddies cozy.”
Now you might think that your circle of hergäbe enough people for a group picture. Not? With this Problem you are not alone. On The Contrary. With friends, it behaves the same as with clothing: and you have to sort out some, some you can’t separate themselves, and others are lost, without that you know exactly how. Sometimes the faithful companion, always and everywhere. You remember perhaps, if you want to meet up on Sunday afternoon spontaneously on a Cup of coffee and a cell phone full of contacts, but no one could call you just like that.
to have a Lot of friends, is apparently a privilege of the youth. The biggest kink in the friends curve undergoes, according to the researchers, when nearing 40. When most people have children and a career, and the lubricant in any human relationship are missing: time.
but Why close Boy of slight acquaintances? Apart from the time factor, the answer is banal: It is often random, with whom we befriend. What is familiar, appears to us to be more sympathetic. So, the buddy who sits every day in the school next to you. Eventually, he will stop at the best friend. Because we are in a young age, haphazard and not to be picky and have a lot of go through. Because it is already so: Correct good friends are those we have experienced in absolutely unfavorable situations (and we still like). Who can I me a hangover entirely or crying to show that it seems to be serious.
What to do to plug the holes in the social network, which arise in the course of life now? Actually, simple: chance by planning to replace. So the neighbor and have a glass of wine to invite the nice father of the baby course to the Sport of swimming take. And, clearly, the time to invest. The unusual car. From time to time, stop in for lunch with the office colleague, not a new girlfriend yet. Of course, this requires Overcoming. You don’t want to be annoying or seem desperate. Or so, as it would be on the drilldown. But not to worry: On Instagram, there’s also the Hashtag #newfriendships, and the people in these pictures don’t look as if they were all in their twenties.
Created: 13.03.2020, 08:25 PM
