“My daughter (9) told that their classmates choose the sports teaching hate, or as the last in your team. I went earlier similar. I think it is a pity that there is such a team elections today. How can I help her? It is advisable to turn on?“
In the sports teaching, the focus should be to ensure that children get the fun of movement, and in the context of team sports, Fairness, and learning Together. What has to experience her daughter, contributes neither to the one nor to the other. Therefore I can understand your displeasure well.
are you Looking for the conversation with the teacher
I find it useful that you turn in favour of their daughter. I’ve done it in such cases, the experience that it is better not to Identify a problem, but with concrete proposals on the teachers approach. You could suggest that a different method is used, the team choice or the General dealing with Strengths and weaknesses addressed within the class community, for example, in the class Council.
These questions should be discussed in the class, first way of the personal experience of their daughter. The Class could, for example, by reading a thematically relevant story, and with the students to discuss. At this point, your daughter can decide for yourself whether you want to talk about it or not.
do not Transfer their own negative childhood experiences in the Situation
you can also Talk with your daughter about why you don’t like this dial-up situation, what she feels and what she would want. They can sense your feelings, but you no longer have to interpret the Situation, as your daughter report to you. From your question I sense that this Situation triggers old emotions in them.
Distinguish between your feelings and those of your daughter, and speak if necessary, even through your own pain – with your Partner, friends, or people you are comfortable with. The Talk about their own negative childhood experiences helps, to stay with the Accompany of the children in the mode of the adult, and to make a factual and level-headed support. FOCUS Online provides you with the most exciting Reports from the parents. Here you can subscribe to the Newsletter.
you can Create success with your child
On days when your daughter is disappointed with the experience in the school, you can help her to make her own Strengths again. A schedule of such days of activities to help your child with successful experiences, the creative activity, games or physical activities you will have:. Just after the Latter, you should even search active: the joy of movement for our children is important – not only from a health perspective.
If the sports lessons in school, the opposite trigger, you should be against taxes. This must not be a “classic” club sports. Maybe your child loves to play with them in the forest or jump on the street jumping rope. The main thing is that, it combines movement, not only with frustration and humiliation.
Daniela Albert is an education researcher and parent and family consultant, lives with her husband and their three children in Kaufungen near Kassel, and blogs at eltern-familie.de.
This article was written by Daniela Albert
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