Probably everyone knows the Situation is to ask a friend or a girlfriend, what he or she intends to do in the coming days. Most of the time you propose this Person, then a joint Venture. This popular set comes but often: “I don’t know.”
but the fact is that the Person knows with a high probability of exactly what she was doing on this day or not is up to. But that’s not the point. It comes to fill a Pool of options from which you can select and then in the rest.
“I don’t know”, it’s not so translated rather: “I know if a Company with you at the end as the best Option out”.
The “cancellation-Silence”
Not only that, so the Opposite is left in a state of Uncertainty, whether that means a negative decision, he is informed of this date on the waiting bench, and can make nothing with other friends.
it Drives the non-binding nature on the top, then you will really waited until the last possible Moment, until it comes to a rejection. Or better yet, There is no answer at all. This tactic I call: the “rejection of Silence”. According to the Motto: If I don’t hear from me, will remember the other, that it is nothing. This is fucking rude – why do we do this?
this property Is to not specify a generation problem? Or it is in other age classes as well and is, in truth, to an ever-growing network through social media?
laziness to make decisions
It is 200, 500, or 1000 friends is now on Facebook to. It has never been so easy to socialize. And it was never so easy, at the last Minute to cancel.
I remember a time in which it was quite normal to have no cell phone. They agreed to return to a fixed time at a fixed location and then all the parties were actually there on time. Today, you can simply tap a quick message and write that it is today, but nothing without the other in the face. This is nice and convenient.
For me it means that I was too lazy to make a timely decision. Therefore, my request to all:
Makes you the trouble of thinking of what you want. A certain amount of time to give your Towards at least a window, so that he can arrange to meet in case of doubt with someone else. This value estimates the time of the other and have yourself suddenly a lot less Stress.
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