It is not more than a couple of days ago, I was presented with a study that showed that roughly half of all women have complexes about to go to the toilet. With number two, if you understand.
Afføringsskam it was called, when I discussed the study with an otherwise very pleasant panel, on national television. Afføringsskam. A – for me – new word, which I simply don’t really know whether I should laugh or cry over.
what the hell is that something to be ashamed of? To go to the toilet, as all people do. Or as they get – with a stoma – who do not get enough, in fact the right would like to do.
I mean, one is to do it in the reasonable discretion – both for their own and others ‘ sake – but something else is because direct to be ashamed of something as natural as stepping on nature’s behalf.
Shame is, without comparison, the worst feeling, we have, and it leads me to see nothing good. There will never come something constructive out of to be ashamed, and it requires no track other than to create a feeling and understanding that one is wrong. The feeling of shame can be equated with that feel wrong.
I can for example, be ashamed of myself if I am going to say one or another is inappropriate in a context, I do not feel a hundred percent comfortable in. As when I to a parents ‘ evening once exclaimed, that it is evidently popular epithets ‘kneeling’ might mean ‘one who sucks p..’ to all the other parents ‘ great dismay.
I will be embarrassing, feel wrong and ashamed. And then I come on, for the worse, of course it is not, than that I a second time just to consider to be my mouth, before I play young with the young, and brings the kind of on the track to forældremøderne.
If instead you are ashamed of to have a bowel movement, so we are on the wrong track, for you can not Milosbet just product his mouth – or bottom, rather – and have to have a bowel movement again a second time.
To have a bowel movement is right is just as natural as it is to breathe. Albeit the first, of course, often smells a bit more intense than the last. We must be our bowel movements, our bodies can function. There is no way around it, and it is therefore a common front for all of us, men as well as women, is that we as a rule of thumb would like to have a bowel movement once a day.
So how the hell can the dog possibly become a taboo? How can it be that someone feels so embarrassing to have a bowel movement, even a afføringsskam? To feel wrong, because you have a bowel movement, is nowhere at home. It is by most of us probably well, but still it is continually a theme.
“Women’s farts – and feces – smells of the flowers,” someone says with a laugh. Gu’ they do not. Sometimes the smell is not special, but other times, for example if you have drunk red wine with a high content of sulfur, then sucks it like a left slagterhus. Regardless of whether you are man or woman. And claiming otherwise, would simply have washed his mouth with soap. Be preserved, I gad, as well, that the reality was full of flower meadows and the scent of lavender.
But if the preconception that women should feel wrong, disgusting, less feminine and usexede, just because their body is very natural afstøder waste every now and then, so it is a no thank you from here. Of course, we should all be allowed to go on the toilet when our body offers us.
And even if it occasionally had to smell or say a small ‘plop’ when it lands in the fishbowl, so fucking be it.
It is common to us all, and so it is not something to be ashamed of. Was said.
Cana-Announcements
Cana-Announcements 33-year-old is originally trained as a midwife, but live in today to be a blogger, instagrammer, and author. She has recently published his third book titled ’40 things you need to know about your birth’.
