Gail Collins recently shared a heartfelt tribute to her late husband, Dan Collins, who passed away due to Covid and pneumonia. Reflecting on their long marriage that began in 1970 when they were graduate students at the University of Massachusetts, Gail fondly remembers the personal and pragmatic aspects that intertwined throughout their life together.
Despite a small controversy between Gail and her sisters over their final exchange of words, Gail cherishes the memory of either saying “I love you” or Dan jokingly claiming credit for ordering special food for their dog. This playful banter encapsulates the joy and humor that sustained their relationship over the years.
Their journey began in Amherst, where Dan, having been drafted right after college, sought early release from a mundane Army job by enrolling in a graduate program. Gail recalls the initial shock her conservative parents experienced upon seeing a photo of Dan in uniform with a rifle, along with a witty inscription about civil liberties. Despite the initial disapproval, they eventually embraced Dan as part of the family.
After living together for a few years, Dan landed a reporting job at The Evening Sentinel in Ansonia, Conn. It was during this time that he proposed to Gail, who made it clear that she would only move with him to the Lower Naugatuck Valley if they were married. Their commitment to each other was evident in both the big decisions and mundane moments that filled their life together.
Gail’s tribute to Dan is a touching reminder of the enduring love and companionship they shared throughout their marriage. As she navigates this period of loss and grief, Gail finds solace in the memories of their time together, from the early days of graduate school to the challenges and joys they faced as a couple.
In honoring Dan’s memory, Gail pays tribute to the depth of their bond and the legacy of love that will always endure. While the pain of loss is profound, the warmth of their shared experiences continues to bring comfort and solace in the midst of sorrow. Gail’s words serve as a testament to the enduring power of love and the lasting impact of a life well-lived.