There was a woman in counseling once and she pointed to the note on Renate Stark’s computer. BUT says it. The woman asked: “Is that your husband’s name?” Stark still laughs today when she talks about it. Of course, her husband’s name isn’t But, the letters stand for a family support package: “Education and Participation”, abbreviated to “BuT”. The note should remind them: Just don’t forget! That’s still there!

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